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Unfinished Drafts 

5/27/2014

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I blog constantly. The trouble is that because [good] writing is so arduous and time consuming, most of it never makes it out of my head and on to the screen. Here are a few relics to prove it. Now's your chance to tell me if you would me to flesh out (pardon the pun you'll soon recognize) any of the following (italicized bits are transitions between posts):
What's Missing from the Modesty Debate
I'm an unabashed card carrying member of the modesty patrol, but I'm about to jump off the bandwagon and start my own band of vigilantes, because I'm starting to see where we've been coming at this all wrong....at least from the view of what it means to follow Jesus.  Behind every virtue is another virtue, so if we track modesty back, we get to humility, and if we trace that to its root, we get to love.  As C.S. Lewis said, true humility is not thinking less of yourself, it's thinking of yourself less." 

You can't be humble and immodest at the same time. The attitude of "if you've got it, flaunt it" isn't humble.  So what is?  It's seeking to help others rather than draw attention to ourselves.  Putting on a low cut shirt or skin tight jeans or a short skirt cannot be done from a place of humility. It's either insecurity, vanity, or another -ity that is self-centered.
...On a kind of related note...though I didn't get far enough to make the connection, and to be honest, I've rather forgotten what it was right now, but considering I was willing to embarrass myself, it must have been profound... 
Of Dainties and Danishes

To some women, God gives dainties, and to others, danishes. I confess to having coveted my neighbors' danishes, while failing to appreciate my own dainties. It didn't help that when my children depended upon my dainties for nourishment, they still didn't grow to the size of danishes, and they turned out to be low fat!  
...More bodily related stuff...what is the fixation??  I think I'm digging myself deeper here...
What If We Prayed As Often As We Peed

I'm a master at two things, which go hand in hand:  procrastination and inconsistency. Take, for example (actually the point of this post), the prayer closet I created in the spring. Most days it collects dust, much  like my soul. Distractions trump good intentions almost every time. And then I go looking to recalibrate my spiritual life, which is what happened three weeks ago, when I went to the reflective retreat at Mount Hermon, which was, for the second time, like entering the wardrobe and coming out in Narnia, minus the animals and the drama. I've been meaning to blog about my experience ever since I returned (which is what I meant to do a year ago when I went the first time). Obviously it hasn't happened…yet. There's that word I'm always saying:  "not just YET…"

…So a funny thing happened that has nothing to do with spending time alone with God, but it's affecting it…in a good way. Even more than my soul, I neglect my body. One thing I don't do enough of is drink water. I was reading a book (being so theoretical is largely responsible for my YET life) and it talked about the importance of getting enough H20. So we bought a fancy alkalizing water filter (to help balance out our acidity) and now I'm trying to drink more water…and tea, and sometimes coffee (but caffeine 
...Yup, I stopped mid-sentence. Probably the kids' fault. Life is a series of interruptions. But at least I got that far, unlike this next post which is a mere title...
How Homeschooling Liberates Women
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Alicia link
5/27/2014 12:14:20 pm

I would love it if you would blog about your retreat.. I guess that wasn't one of the options..but that's the one I choose anyway.
xo Mom

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Liz Barosko
5/28/2014 03:10:48 pm

I'd like to heat more about your thoughts on the modesty debate! xo

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